Full
disclosure: that’s as salty as the language is going to get in this week’s
edition, I promise. Further, I apologize
if I shocked you
with that title, but I believe you’ll see my reasoning in just a moment.
Social
media is ubiquitous. (That’s a fancy
word meaning “found everywhere”, and I chose to use it instead of “found
everywhere” because it sounds cool –
try using it at your next cocktail party to impress your friends.) Whether we’re at work, school, place of
worship, coffee shop, etc., we’re touched by some avenue of social media. It’s sort of made us a “transparent” society,
and there are many good things about that.
However, that transparency often leads to oversharing and the insistence
that being rude should be accepted because someone’s “just being honest.” Let me be honest here: that’s hooey! (I told you I wouldn’t get salty.)
Fire
up Instagram or Facebook, and you’ll see people posting, for example, how they
feel about a particular public figure and using language that would raise the
blood pressure of their second-grade teacher.
When it’s a private individual exercising their right to free speech,
I’m all for that right. However, when a
person uses the same social media outlet/application for both personal and
professional purposes, and they don’t employ a “filter”, we should all be
wary.
You
might be saying at this point, “I couldn’t disagree more. I would rather have a person be the same in
both a professional and casual setting –
that way I know they’re ‘real’.” I’m not
here to pitch a big argument with you, but I’ll pose this question to you along
those same lines: if that person is being “real” and saying not-so-nice things
about someone else, are you sure they have the restraint to NOT say not-so-nice
things about you to other people?
If
you’re a potential buyer or seller of a home, and you came across an Instagram
feed for a particular real estate agent who had some great photos and
interesting tidbits but found one of their posts complaining about having just
dealt with their “client from Hell”, are you really sure they’re going to have
the patience and perspective you might need to have a happy and successful
transaction? I’ve heard it said (and a
quick Google search isn’t bringing up who actually said it) that, just because
you have the right to say something doesn’t mean it’s right to say. Discretion and good judgment are sort of
frowned upon and thought of as “not cool” in today’s social media world –
and that’s a shame.
Further,
I’m not here to decry social media. I
think they’re great for a lot of reasons.
(Heck, without Facebook, I wouldn’t remember half my friends’
birthdays.) Social media are GREAT tools
for business, too! And like any tool,
when it’s used properly, we see great results.
If used improperly –
like buying a $1000 mountain bike to ride around the block (twice a year) –
it’s a waste of resources. For example,
if you’re an agent using social media for business and you fill your Instagram
feed with JUST pretty pictures of houses interspersed with a shot of your
dog/cat and your latest vacation, you’re sending the wrong message: that you
sit around loading photos on Instagram all day.
Instead, you want to tell people what makes you stand out and why you’re
better equipped to handle their transaction than the gajillion other agents out
there. But don’t get too serious –
use good judgment.
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